Showing posts with label Couples. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Couples. Show all posts

Tuesday, December 27, 2011

Couples Making Love Positions Everyone Should Know

Out of the many thousands of couples making love positions, they all can be grouped in 6 basic categories, learning the many different variations can keep the spark alight in your love life. In this article we will cover the six different groups and go into detail on some of the actual positions themselves.

Starting with the six category groups, we have:

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- Man on Top
- Woman on Top
- Side Position
- Man from Back
- Standing and Sitting Face to Face Positions
- Cross Positions

Now that we have the categories out of the way, let's go into detail on some of the individual positions themselves. Starting with the Man from back category the first options in this position and probably the most well known is doggy style. Have I have heard time and time again from females that this is the only position that they can achieve an orgasm. I will fill you in on a secret, why this is.

The doggy style position is the easiest position to allow the man to stimulate the woman's g-spot with his penis. The position itself is achieved with the woman on all fours, and the man entering from the back, variations of this include the woman kneeling on the floor with her chest resting on the bed, or the woman lying on her stomach with the man on top.

Next let's cover some of the positions in the sitting and standing face to face category. This is a useful position if the male has weak erections, and it is versatile, being able to be performed on the edge of a bathtub, on a chair, or on the floor, the options are countless.

This position is also good for guys who are a bit larger than normal, because in most cases it does not allow the male to penetrate deep into the vagina. This position is achieved by the woman sitting with bent legs on the edge of a small chair or stool, the man gets on his knees facing the woman between her legs, the woman can also choose to wrap her legs around the mans back. A variation to this is the man sitting in the chair with the woman in his lap facing him.

Lastly lets talk about the Standing couples making love positions, this can be a difficult position to master, but it is advantageous as it allows the couples to make love without getting completely naked. This is a great position for quick sex, which guys usually love.

This position is achieved by both partners standing face to face, tilting the bodies back a bit. Another option on this position is the man stands holding the woman's hips or buttocks, while the woman grasps his body with her legs and thighs. These positions work well making love in a swimming pool or lake.

Lastly we will cover some positions that fall into the cross positions category. The positions in this group consist of the couple bodies being place across each other to an extent. The first option in this category is for the woman to lie on her back, legs bent at the knees, and legs spread. The man is between her legs on his knees.

The variation to this is the woman lies on the bed with her legs lifted up, with her back on the edge of the bed. The man stays on his knees in front of her. The benefits of these positions is that the penis has a better chance of rubbing the clitoris. Lets face it no clitoral stimulation, no female orgasm, and one unhappy female.

Couples Making Love Positions Everyone Should Know

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Sunday, August 28, 2011

Couples -- Are You Growing Apart?

You used to be so happy together; now you feel as if you are drifting apart. You don't talk as easily; you don't feel as connected. You may even be wondering if you should stay in this relationship.

Being in relationship is hard work. Even very strong relationships require effort and attention. It is normal for committed relationships to change over time. The fun-filled romantic beginnings eventually give way to the realities of laundry, bills, errands, etc. Some days look hopeful, but other days you wonder, "What happened to the close friendship we once had?"

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It is normal for relationships to have their ups and downs, but some problems do not get better on their own and require more than just waiting for the storm to pass. When a couple begins to grow apart, neither one of them feels content - they may feel sad or worried.

The good news is - there is hope!

Here are a few things you can do to reconnect to each other and strengthen your relationship.

Name the problem - talk about the feelings of distance, stress, and worry that you are experiencing. This is not a chance to blame someone for the distance, but rather a chance to begin to understand what this experience is like for each of you.
Have a date every week - put it on the calendar, get a sitter if necessary, and spend time together. Go someplace where you can talk rather than a movie where you are watching and not interacting. Take a walk together, or go out for coffee or ice cream. Take turns deciding where to go on dates, San Antonio and the Hill Country are full of wonderful places where you can spend time together. If one or both of you are doing overtime at work, agree to cut back on this a bit so that you have time and energy for your relationship. Yes, we love our jobs and they are often demanding - but when you feel happy at home, you will be better at your work. Can you identify a particular time or event that might have started this emotional shift? Maybe there wasn't an event, but perhaps a series of events that pulled your attention other places. If you two can figure this out, you can have a different response in the future. If you are holding onto anger that is keeping you apart, work to resolve it. Make a list of at least 20 things you really admire about each other. Tell each other one item from your list every day for a month. This helps you remember why you fell in love, and helps you tune in to your partner. You can have fun with this - send your "I admire..." in an email or a card, or leave post-it notes around the house. Don't underestimate the stress that comes with feeling disconnected to each other. Stress contributes to most major illness. You will be helping yourselves and your relationship by tending to stressors.Set aside time every day to talk. Reflect on your day, or things you are worrying about. This is a great time to tell your partner what you admire in her. Daily connections will help you tune-in to each other.If nothing seems to work, seek an outside objective opinion from a friend, clergypersonson, or therapist. There is a pattern here - if you want to feel closer to your mate, you need to actually spend time with each other. By making time together a priority, you create a space to reconnect.

There are times in all relationships where couples can feel distant. However, you do not have to settle for a relationship that is "okay," you can actually have fun together and rekindle the love you once had.

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Couples -- Are You Growing Apart?

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